
We men aren't flowers either. If the woman is not build by our modern society's standards we wouldn't even look at her.
Through history they were never given responsibility. They had to wait everything from the males, that is how the civilization conditioned them. I remember when my history teacher was talking about the stone age and the matriarchy. He used to say that on one woman would jump ten men and who did it did it(about the mating process). My point is that there was time when women were chiefs, and made all important desicion.We just listened.
I think that is time to stop blaming the women for everything. We should see them as source of fun and pleasure in our lives, nothing more and nothing less.
Like it had been through the ages, it is your responsibility to lead, not hers. It is your responsibilty to learn and I recommend you to start with David Deangelo. I'm downloading his advanced series program, which is all about inner game(it is about you, not them). Torrent some of his work, study it and transform YOURSELF.
P.S. When I was younger, in school I was bullyed always by males, never by females.